I had my iPod on shuffle this morning and one of the live versions of a Stephen Kellogg song came on. He took a break in the middle of the song to really talk about its meaning:

“You have friends. Then you have Friends with a capital F. People who like you, people who you actually want to pick up their phone call even when you’re in a bad mood. Friends with a capital F; you’ll always pick up their calls, no matter what the hell is going on.”

Not trying to sound weird, but over the course of the past two months, I’ve discovered my true Friends, versus those who are just friends. Don’t get me wrong, friends are still friends and good people. But Friends are a whole different breed. I’ll leave it at that.

As for an update on my life … I’m sorry it’s been so long. I’m still looking for a full-time opportunity. I am doing about 20 hours/week of contract work for a PR firm, which is nice. I’m playing way too much golf, which is also nice. Though I wish my game was doing better.

I’ve found golf to be my saving grace from boredom and (possibly) depression. I’m not sitting around the house as much as I did my first few weeks out of work. I’m actually somewhat busy in my life. Have things to do and a purpose for the day has made this period some much better.

Howdy folks. I know you’ve missed me SO MUCH since my last post. I wish I had a great reason for not posting in such a long time … like finding an awesome job … or meeting the love of my life … or winning the lottery … or making a mean turkey sandwich. In truth, I have no good reason.I’ve been chillin’ out the past couple of weeks, looking for jobs, playing golf, sleeping in and drinking beer. Not too bad for my summer break / free agency.

I did have a five-hour interview on Friday that (I think!) went well. Also started working in an office again today. Am doing some contract work for a PR firm in town. It’ll get me out of the house for 15 to 20 hours a week for now. Today was good. Decided to use public transportation to get to the firm’s downtown office and it worked out very well. I actually like the bus a lot; was able to read a magazine and relax. No worries about parking or driving or anything. Just me, my magazine and my iPod.

Hope to update you again soon. Maybe I’ll even have some good news!

I haven’t been posting as much as I should as of late. But it’s not because I haven’t had the time. It’s mostly because last week was pretty much a “wash” due to the holiday and this week has been somewhat slow as well.Tuesday was busy, though. Went in for a writing test at a local PR agency, then went downtown to spend the afternoon working from friends’ office space. It sure was nice to get out of the house and interacting with people again!

And starting today I will no longer be counting my days of unemployment. I don’t think it’s a good idea anymore, as it’s kind of depressing to see. But I have reached the one-month mark and I must say I’m doing well. I still don’t feel like I’m unemployed. It feels like I’m on a staycation and am due back at work any day now.

Yesterday I sent in my application and supporting documents for a federal contract job. That was, surprisingly, a lot of work for just one application. But I’m happy with the end product and was even happier to get it out the door.

Today has been spent replying to e-mails that have stacked up, catching up with hiring companies and cleaning my kitchen. I guess I’ve been eating at home more often as of late and my kitchen really shows it!

This first thought has nothing to do with my search for employment, but rather an exciting series of events. Two of my most-recent exes experienced some excitement in their lives recently. One was married two weekends ago and another became engaged on Friday. I’m actually happy for both. But it makes me feel like Dane Cook’s character in the movie “Good Luck Chuck,” not that I’ve seen it yet. I’ll look for it in the Red Box later this week.I decided to make Friday a fun and free day. The Friday before last was slow and boring, and it affected my mood going into the weekend. So I was determined to make this past Friday a good one. I went to the pool in the morning and washed my car in the afternoon. I know, exciting!

I ended up playing golf on Saturday and, evening though it was hot, I had a great time. I need to look for more golf deals and take advantage of this extended break.

Monday was spent trying to figure out how to apply for a federal job. I found a 14-month contract position that’s open, but applying is a pain in my arse. I had to request a college transcript for the first time in my life. It made me realize that NO ONE has ever asked to see proof of my college education. Heck, for all they know, I could have gone to Bob’s College of Knowledge instead of Ohio University. Do they have a good football team?

Even though my schedule hasn’t been packed with meetings or tasks, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday were productive.Tuesday: Actually slept past 9 a.m. for the first time in weeks. I guess I had fallen behind on my sleep. Spoke with a potential employer at 11 a.m., which went well. I spent the rest of the day doing things around the house, then drove to Concord, N.C., to pick up some PRSA Charlotte materials from a colleague. Never realized Concord was so far away. But, it was good to get out of the house and enjoy some car time.

Wednesday: Went to a PRSA Charlotte board meeting and luncheon. Both were great. I got to catch up with some friends and heard about a potential 14-month contract position. The luncheon featured an entertaining media panel.

Thursday: Well, Thursday’s only half done right now, but it’s been productive. I went to FedEx Office this morning to have some of my work samples bound, then headed to an interview. This in-person interview was a follow up to the phone interview on Tuesday. I feel as if it went well and I look forward to seeing how the cards play out.

On tap for the rest of the day: I have a phone call with Rabbi Danielle from Hillel at Ohio University at 2:45 p.m. In between now and then, I think I’ll reply to some e-mails, do a load of laundry, clean up my house a bit and make stir fry for lunch.

I appreciate you checking in on me and my adventure. I look forward to sharing more of the struggles and successes in the coming days!